Want to know more about vaginismus? We have a whole blog about it right here. The good news is vaginismus can come and go, so if you do have this condition it may take a little longer for you to get used to using tampons but it doesn’t mean you won’t be able to use them in future. The best way to find the information you need is via your GP - they can give you helpful exercises. But don’t worry, there are things you can do to loosen the muscles. Other times it can be triggered by a medical condition, trauma from childbirth, menopause, physical or sexual abuse, certain medications, and more. The causes of this condition vary some believe it’s the body's reaction to a fear of penetration, whether conscious or not. It can be a bit painful for some, or very painful for others, but mainly it’s emotionally frustrating.
It happens when the muscles in and around the vagina tighten up when you try to insert a tampon (or a penis, or whatever, for that matter!). Vaginismus isn’t dangerous so it’s nothing to worry about, but it can cause frustration. If you’ve tried many times to insert a tampon to no avail, and no matter how much you try to relax it won’t happen, you may have something called vaginismus. In most cases, relaxation activities (which you’ll find below) can help, but in some cases they don’t. They’re pretty tough, and can put up a fight when something tries to go in there. If you’re thinking ‘Pah! Pelvic floor muscles are no match for a tampon’. The main issue that hinders tampon insertion for most is the muscles in the vagina tensing up and stopping anything from passing through. Adding a little of this to the entrance of your vagina, or to the applicator, can often make a difference. Just some good old smooth, slippery lube to help that tampon glide on in there. Lube! You might think of the sexy tubes of flavoured stuff in the supermarket next to the condoms, and you’d be right, but don’t forget there are also lots of personal lubricants marketed without sex in mind. If you need even more help (not a problem, plenty of people do!) then there’s one more trick up our sleeve. They receive a lot of bad press because of the plastic waste they produce, but many people find them necessary for their tampon insertion, so if that’s you, go for it! An applicator usually provides more of a smooth surface to help the tampon slip in, and doesn’t require quite so much bending to reach your fingers into your vagina. Plus you can easily find eco-friendly applicator tampons that use cardboard rather than plastic, just like Yoppie's own in fact! Try lubricant If you need more help, applicators are the way to go. Even if you have had sex before, you may simply have a smaller hole down there that the tampon has to get through, so give it the best chance by choosing the smallest size. If you’re struggling to insert a tampon, make sure you’re trying the smallest size you can first. This also helps if you worry about the tampon getting stuck - rest assured that what goes up will come down! Use smaller tampons If you’re worried about this, it can sometimes help to look at a diagram while you insert your tampon so you can picture where it’s going. Unsure of what’s inside your vagina? You may be pushing the tampon in at the wrong angle. If you feel confident that you have read the instructions on the side of the packaging correctly, yet nothing seems to be working, here are some other things you can try: Look at a diagram
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It’s pretty common, and there are a few reasons why it could be happening to you.īefore we dive in, it’s worth mentioning that there’s no shame in not knowing how to insert a tampon (no matter what age you are) because we don’t all get a step-by-step tutorial on this stuff, and in many cases we’re left to figure it out on our own. You’re certainly not the first to experience this. Are you dealing with a particularly defiant vagina? One that, no matter how much you poke and prod and try to relax and poke some more, just won’t let you insert a tampon? If that sucker won’t budge, don’t worry.
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